How Long Should There Be Between Engagement and Wedding?

As the title suggests, if you clicked on this article, we can assume that you are engaged or engaged. Now we ask you to close your eyes and review the stages of your relationship from the very beginning. The dating phase, the day you started dating, the time you became lovers, and the time you said a big yes to a wonderful marriage proposal... After remembering all these processes, let's come to today: The engagement phase... Generally, after the ceremony of asking for a girl, there are some changes in the dynamics of relationships. The loose and loving state of the beloved universe evolves into a more domestic and family time. Of course, it is possible to turn this process into a more enjoyable and loving one. In this context, it is normal for you to be wondering about the answers to the questions "How long should be the interval between the engagement and the wedding?" and "What should be the ideal period for an engagement?" As you can guess, you can find the answers to these questions in this article.

How Long Should There Be Between Engagement and Wedding?

Ideal Engagement and Engagement Duration

First of all, let's talk about whether there is an ideal period of engagement or engagement, which is a wonderful process for the couple who will start a new home to get to know each other and for families to bond. Although the answer to this question varies depending on people and cultures, when we look at the family structure, customs and traditions of the Turkish society; In general, we can say that it is an ideal period of being engaged and engaged.

Unless there is a very special situation (such as a fiancee expected to return from the military, waiting for the appointment of one of the couples living in different cities, a fiancée studying abroad, etc.), we can state that the average time required for wedding preparations is one year. This period is also valid for the ideal period of engagement or engagement. The engagement may last for an average of one year for the families to get to know each other and for the wedding preparations to be completed one by one.

If the gap between engagement and wedding is too long

Let's talk about what we take into consideration when expressing an average duration of engagement and engagement... If both parties are ready for the wedding, getting married after a short engagement will not be a problem, but problems may arise especially in cases where the engagement period exceeds 1.5-2 years.

During the wedding preparations, sometimes arguments or problems may occur between engaged couples and third parties due to the increasing stress factor. The main reason for this is that people other than the couple getting married take too much ownership of the wedding preparations. (While shopping for a wedding dress, you may be exposed to your mother-in-law's tripping because you did not choose the wedding dress she wanted). In such cases, we recommend that you remain calm and act politically, and not keep the engagement process too long. Because the longer it takes, the more problems you may experience. Of course, there will be problems after marriage, but it is easier to overcome these problems with your future spouse who will live in the same house.

In addition, by going beyond the endless customs, ceremonies and ceremonies, and closing the shutters of your house with pink shutters to the outside world as soon as possible; You may also want the days you will spend in your sweet and peaceful home, where only you and your future spouse will be, to come as soon as possible.