Calling a Mother-in-Law a Mother

While you are in a happy relationship with your lover, suddenly when you least expect it! (Of course, you were waiting, you won't miss your lover's surprised and excited state) The marriage proposal and your relationship is now at a completely different point... The change in the course of your relationship means that you will swim in waters you never knew or predicted. If this title caught your attention, you must be thinking about how to address your future mother-in-law, whom you have been calling Auntie X since the day you met, as "mother". So, without keeping you waiting, let's move on to the details.

When to Call Mother-in-Law Mother?

One of the most difficult things for our bride-to-be is to address the mother-in-law as mother and the father-in-law as father. These two words have very deep meanings and you use them for the people you care about the most; It may be a bit difficult for you to have to use it for your mother-in-law and father-in-law with whom you do not yet feel an emotional bond.

Traditional approaches, customs and traditions are very important in Turks. If you had a mother-in-law from a different culture, you wouldn't have to call her mother and you could even call her by her name. If you have a classical mother-in-law with a traditional culture, it will be inevitable for you to address her as mother; Otherwise, your future mother-in-law may complain that "my daughter-in-law doesn't call me mother" and make your ears ring. So when are you expected to call your mother-in-law and father-in-law mom? Immediately after the marriage proposal ceremony, after the elders' hands are kissed, your mother-in-law and father-in-law expect you to address them as mother and father.

Easy Way to Call Your Mother-in-Law Mom

If you think we will give you a secret or a tip that will make it easier for you to call your mother-in-law mom, we may disappoint you a little because there is no easy way to do this, but there is a shortcut. After the marriage ceremony, we recommend that you condition yourself to call your mother-in-law mother and call her mother at the first opportunity. Just say it... As time goes on and the expectations from you in this sense increase, it will become more difficult for that magic word to come out. If it would be too difficult to call her mother directly, you can put her name in front of her, so it may be easier to say mother X when addressing her.

If That Word Doesn't Come Out of Your Mouth Despite Everything

The ceremony of asking for a daughter has come and gone, even your engagement has been made and you still cannot call your mother-in-law as mother... Your situation may be quite dire! Every time you address your mother-in-law as Auntie X, that fire coming out of your mother-in-law's eyes can destroy you over time. To prevent this, you can try to talk openly with your mother-in-law. Expressing that you want to call her mother but you have difficulty in doing so and that this will change over time may save you some more time. Let us point out that how your future spouse behaves at this stage is also important. If she has already started calling your mother and father as mother and father, time is working against you and you should start calling your mother-in-law and father-in-law as mother and father as soon as possible.

If your fiancee calls your parents aunt and uncle, then you can put that forward. When your mother-in-law is about to complain about you not calling her mother, tell her that your fiancée behaves the same way. Let your fiancée take the pressure off, well, it's not easy to be a prince charming. Another suggestion that will help you in the short term, but will not be a solution as time goes on, is to talk to your mother-in-law without addressing her. If you can't say mother, don't say aunt X either. This tactic can save you time while distracting your mother-in-law for a while until you are cornered and forced to address her.